Self acceptance and growth of learning

Self acceptance and growth of leaing The acceptance of self, growth and LeaingRobert Elias NajemyMany people believe to be unhappy themselves, or who rejects, or the sense of guilt or shame, to have a ground for self-improvement and growth. They wonder if they accept me and love me as I am, what I have no reason to change, grow or improve? "The acceptance of ourselves as we are, is not a deterrent to continue our efforts to lea, grow and improve. We can accept ourselves and continue to improve our character and to increase our knowledge GraderPerhaps the first example of school children in class will help us to understand. These children in the early years of primary school do not discharge themselves because they are not in a higher class, or they do not know how well, or are not like children in a position of higher education degrees. They accept as they are, and are pleased with themselves at their current level of skills and knowledge.Yet, no child should be accepted within the same category the next year or the year after year. Similarly, there is no conflict between acceptance and feel comfortable with our temporarily limited capacity and low level of consciousness, and our need to continue to grow. E 'natural to accept and love us in this phase of growth and at the same time to participate in leaing, development and improvement of natural ourselvesGrowth is instinctive need. Scientists have discovered that when a person leas something new, creating a positive increase excretion endomorphines and other chemicals in the brain. makes leaing fun, when it is natural and not for fear of rejection and failure.But there are other causes of action and growth, and is the love and the need for creativity. We need to love and create, as we need to sleep and eat. These are the basic needs, even if they are higher on the need hierarchy of scale. Thus, even if there are self-rejection or dissatisfaction as a motivating force, there will always be the love and creativity as driving forces of growth, and create produce.Let we grow naturally without fear or self doubt. We are all in the first year of school growth.But spiritual we must prepare for the second year next year and third year and beyond? .. (Taken from "The Psychology of Happiness" by Robert Najemy available and this book and other writings can be found at the place where you can also download FREE articles and e-books.) Information on Robert Elias Najemy author has written over 600 articles 400 tapes of lectures on human rights Harmony and 20 books which have sold over 100,000 copies. He is the founder and director of the Center for harmonious living in Greece with 3700 members. His book The psychology of happiness, ISBN 0-9710116-0-5 and is available at the place where you can view and download FREE articles and e-books.