Dec 22, 2009

Find Em In the eyes of the real power of contact with eyes

Find Em In the eyes of the real power of contact with eyes "When our eyes arelocked in silent communication, we are basically touching it." Debbie Bailey Besides touch (not really an option INA presentation setting), eye contact is the most powerful and personal Allofs presentation delivery notes. Whenyou a public theeyes State, for the few seconds aretalking directly to him / her. Why is eye contact so powerful? Goodey contact cuts physical distance inhalf, it helps you connect with youraudience a personal level, invitesaudience members to attend yourpresentation (if I understand it comes longenough), you can surprise the audience togauge response to yourpresentation Heckler frompestering stops, and so much more . The fact is, if you someonedirectly eye, it is as if youare very close to him / her. During a presentation, near isgood. The closer you are, you are moreimmediate so that youare more difficult to ignore. Do you think in terms theaudience is mucheasier To view a presenter who isfarther distance (I do not see, you can not see me). From theaudience members sit on the next youwill still the best experience, use good eye contact with moveyourself physically closer to audiencemembers is sitting on the back of the room. Their eyes also youwith valuable feedback on how theaudience is your message. Approval, confusion, agitation, hostility, frustration, and many other emotions are all youraudience expressed by body language. Eye contact will help you to read and react to thesilent news issending your target audience about their understanding, their loves and their dislikes so youcan determine what is to strengthen the customer, through the haste etc.There is an art , making good, strong eyes. The best eyecontact is a direct and sustainable-lasting4 to 5 seconds for the public. This is much longer than most people think. In fact, inexperiencedpresenters often make the mistake ofglancing quickly roomwithout operation around the eyes for anylength time. His eyes contactappears bounce from person to toperson. Instead, around each audiencemember until he / she silentlyacknowledge before clicking tosomeone more. This will help you a lot more forgée eachindividual in connection with your audience.Be aware that most of the speakers eyecontact show preference. This means thatthey look theaudience some people more than others. Researchindicates which tend to theaudience members mostpositive us feedback and also peoplewith the Authority (ie the CEOin room). Confirmingto while you watch people who enjoyingour presentation ( "they want me to do theyreally"), make it a point to seek ateveryone well as possible. Spectators who do not feel they are in conversation with them (asdemonstrated by your lack of eyecontact) have a tendency to tuneout. And as we consider the power peoplein remember that watchingyou to see how you deal with the other inthe organization. The best way todemonstrate your faiess and respectis through eye contact equality. Need more proof about the power of eyecontact? Try it with your eyes tomake someone speak. Someonedirectly look in their eyes and sit still and said nothing. Then wait (which ishard be done, but a little 'patience). Theindividual you are looking for is becompelled to speak. Here, contact with eyes POWERof! Conversely, if you have a Heckler hildren public, you need Visual adifferent tactics. Heckler defined as those who just want to toembarrass or annoy-almost always sit in the back of the room where you see them havedifficulty. Heckler wantto remain anonymous, which is why youneed used to protect the eyes from singlethem. With his eyes, said: "I knowwho there are, and I see what you'redoing." Sometimes even a walk-closerto while itabsolutely irritates them. Then, onceyou've that - not to see it again. All exceptthe Heckler will getthe message.If persistent contact with the eyes is why powerfulnonverbal Communicator manypresenters waste precious contactlooking eye on their film? Presenterswatch their slides (instead of theiraudience), as if every moment theirslides could change into something exciting newand - "I have my eyeson, because you never know whatthey will." Avoid the tendency tolook on your slides. Instead focusthe performance of your eyes on thatwhich-youraudience.For really surprised a lot more about these and other Presentation Secrets, check out the book "15 Presentation Secrets: Howto WOW Even the most difficult," Bailey byDebbie a trainer2go. com / ebooks. html. About the Author Debbie Bailey is author of the book "15 Presentation Secrets - How to WOW Even the most difficult." It is well known in the field for their life changing presentation skills classes. Debbie holds a Master's Degree in Professional Communications and a Bachelor of Arts in speech communication.

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