Maturity is a crossroads of a crisis

Maturity is a crossroads of a crisis Midlife is a crossroads? NO to the crisis in the first part? Manganiello? All rights reserved 2003The common concept of "middle age crisis" refers to the feelings of stress, chaos and the imbalance that typically accompany this special in our lives. The excitement of maturity usually comes into our awareness and conce about what we are. It 'better to think of as the psychological and spiritual maturity rather than a biological time. Some people come into this important phase of 30 to 70.The key to transforming stress into maturity and sense of depth is to understand that maturity is not a crisis at all? What? Sa crossroads of soul, that a fork? S unacknowledged.During too often misunderstood and adolescents pass through a development called puberty, that a change? s clearly recognized why? s so physical and visible. At the end of going through a phase of development the most powerful, but? And together, one inside. Because this phase ISN? Is not visible, are often not recognized and not recognized for what it really our soul is.At school boards an important issue for us: We want to go home to our deepest identity and live the second half of our lives as real or as a dress rehearsal? The term chaos is because of our soul? S effort to rid ourselves of an identity that condition? S really too small for us to have the maturity are.During a natural movement within us to leave the surface of our identity and our inner jouey of identity? the heart. This movement often meets with strong resistance from the forces of inteal security, which naturally seek to maintain the status quo. These forces should be educated to see the picture to become allies helps us to grow and craft Life.Midlife Good changes are forcing us to abandon well-known foreign territory. These can be full of doubt and fear. These experiences and inner turmoil that goes, even if negotiated, can produce something of lasting value. What? S as if our identity loses its solid foundation as we are moving between the different possibilities within ourselves. During the confusion that the psychological maturity to occupy a place that is like being on a bridge. Any emotional disorder is like a strong wind that felt out of control family, as the images that we have established in the past no longer fixed, stable and reliable.If who resist change and maintain the same rigid stereotype, you risk live the second half of our life is simply one who has problems of identity to seize the opportunities of life deeper. We can develop a chronic form of fear of having to face growing old and having to inevitable death. This fear steals life? The bright colors and make it something that is confined to live with more or vibration passion.Our deepest possibilities often emerge more clearly in times of spiritual and psychological confusion. Many of us enter adulthood with a well-defined models of identity. Our work and family life have become predictable on the basis of exteal sources of identity and enjoyment. And then you can begin to feel exhausted and out of class. What we have worked hard and appreciated what we have, it starts to seem lacking in some vague way. Our lives begin to feel like a tragedy that someone has arranged. Lose energy in what we do every day. It becomes repetitive and boring. Even our most valuable assets in May suddenly seem to be "stuff" does not mean much to us. You can almost feel as if we have lost something then fight for the retu. But in general it is not more? I do not work. There are old wounds stress in our image starts to feel very sore again. As a kind of panic set, we can find our connections to people in our working life and family are strained. We start to question everything that seems to have a hold on our time and energy. And you can feel a strong desire to freedom.Midlife is a time when the old images that had come to rely on self-definition does not seem to work properly. But for now there are new images in the scene gives us a clear sense of identity. As a result, our experience of ourselves, the "I" or "me" who tend to identify with, it can be difficult and is somewhat indefinite.It 'come to discover that the land we were standing, in fact , is a big turtle is back in motion. What results is a subtle sense of tension and panic that we lose our balance and certainty of who we are. Next month? Ll continue to explore the fascinating territory of maturity in the second part of this series. After many years of study and work in the best of Weste and Easte Europe, the psychological well-being and spiritual traditions that created the Good Life ", an improvement in practice, which brings together the ancient wisdom and knowledge of the art. The process is a powerful tool for change and maturity to negotiate the creation of a life can be lived well, loved and understood. The author Dr. Jim Manganiello is an award-winning depth psychologist, teacher, coach, instructor and meditation. He works with people who want your life to craft a work of art. Jim has created an incredible, 5, the development of good living, now available at The Course is a powerful life improves circulation, The Good Life process? Subscribe to Jim? S Newsletter and get the first part of the process of step 1 FREE.