In front of you the power of introspection

In front of you the power of introspection Because it is easier to consider the other instead of ourselves? Read on to find out. Have you ever wondered what could be done in a fight? In a communication breakdown? In a misunderstanding? Do not feel bad or be surprised if you answered "no." Why? Because it's easier to say that the problem is the 'other' and not us? Appears to be inherently easier to say "I'm good, is" in interpersonal interactions. Of course, tend to look beyond ourselves, for the reasons of the problems. Less than 5% of people naturally tend to look at themselves without answers to problems. Introspection is defined as a control of thoughts and feelings, the process of self-examination. Encyclopedia Britannica said that introspection is the process of observing the operations of the mind in order to discover the laws that gove the mind. What laws gove your mind? You can see their motives, their psychology and their own image? Most of us do not have time to look at how it has become the way they are now. We are "just" and that is what happens. The truth of the matter is that not only "get in that way," which were influenced by a multitude of factors: genetics, culture, family, education, counseling, trauma to the birth - the list goes on. Each of these factors has been woven in the tapestry that makes us who we are? that makes us react to others in the way we do. However, in an argument or misunderstanding that is not usually think, "What is my part in this? What should I do or say because of this misunderstanding. 'It is much easier to do without rather than within. Take responsibility for us means being honest enough and will suffice to ask what drives us? and much more, introspection is a willingness to change what we see, in order to make changes. FAQ I'm having trouble even interested in this topic. Why should I be worried too introspective? This can not be an answer you like, but there is no need to worry about their inner life, if you want to continue the way they are today. However, if you have an idea that could also be the cause of another person? S unhappiness, or that his self-centeredness is the cause of some problems between her and the others, then, introspection is a responsibility that you want to cultivate. I'm good, I have problems to meet others. How do I convince them that? Most of us have? Ok? with ourselves. How could it be otherwise? We are so accustomed to living with ourselves that? It is difficult to imagine that he might even be less than perfect. While some of the problems that can and probably others, this does not give us the right to excuse ourselves from doing some inner exploration. Before you try to convince someone that is the problem, you should take the time to question their motives. If you can be honest with yourself, then in a better position to talk about another person? S problem. What kind of questions do I ask? What I'm trying to find information about me? No, "Why I am so angry? ma? Why get angry? is a better approach. I'm being selfish, egocentric, or just the way I want? I'm trying to manipulate another person through guilt or bad? I'm being lazy? These are just a starting point. How can I get someone else to introspection? There is no safe way to get someone else to introspection. Maybe if they see that is more reflective about their motives can challenge themselves. But in the long term can be? Those who have not done anything about their inner life, unless the benefits for themselves. Why should I change? What's so great? My personal belief is that the auto-discovery is found through introspection is a reward in itself. But, more practical, self-honesty can lead to greater peace in life? at least within the struggles and disputes with the other not. There are things of my (spouse, boss, friend, children) mobs for me - how can it be introspective make a difference? I? I have found over and over again that what irritates others is often a weak point that we have in ourselves. Upon seeing the weakness of another person, we are angry, when in reality we have the same problem? if we are honest with ourselves. Introspection is not a panacea for the problems to report. This is a valuable tool to grow and become a happy person. About the Author Hal Warfield is a speaker, teacher and coach. Warfield@midsouth.rr.com write to him or through his website at