Authentic live in a world in maschera

Authentic live in a world in maschera Humanity seems to be the only species that does not seem satisfied with their. People tend to give most of his life, to live an illusion that no one will ever be able to achieve. And 'the illusion of perfection. The problem is, this is a course that is with the failure and pain. Someone came with the concept that people should be wafting through the fields gathering flowers and singing the songs of angels. If you are in this course, you will never be measured. They were not. There are too many people walking by condemning this illusion. They believe that they do not have the game of life. It is not true. You have not failed. One can not but be something that is unattainable. Instead, you should be glad that you, as you have. There are many who have in this life, because they refuse, not everything. I can talk about how you can truly live with the life you have. One of them, you must use the decision to live in the moment. There are too many who are in the past with its mistakes, or in the future, with their uncertainties. This is faith, take the proverbial bull by the hos and live in the here and now. We all know that we can not change the past, but many of us to camp there, in the hope that we can make sense. Then there is the other group, from a time hasn? T happened yet. Neither group is very useful. Life is happening now. So how do you live now? Start with the mask. Admitting that life hasn? T was what you expected, and then yourself and God forgives. Yourself for the hunt of an illusion, and that God, to give the blame to him that didn? T happen as you expect. Second: be honest with himself honesty is a commodity lost in time in which we live, people love to lie. The only problem is that it, and you can judge. One can say that? I don? T lie. Here's a short quiz. 1. You're saying that you do not? T hold? (I M go on a diet.) 2nd They do for others, we do not? T hold? (I? Ll-time.) 3rd You say that other, hear what they want instead of what they need to hear for fear of the consequences? 4th If you asked your closest friend, if you are an honest person, as you answer? There are, without thinking, because that is what we are conditioned to do. We mitigate by giving them little white lies. A lie is a lie. Of course there are the other extremists who are not at the pace their honesty. You are trying to belittle people. Both sides are not good. As you begin to live you need to bind your honesty priority. Why? How you can be honest with another person if you are not honest with themselves? In addition, projects with other people. By projection, I believe that you have the burden of another person, that one can not be. Here you can find fault with the person who is only a mirror of you. Since you do not have the compassion of love in the shadow of himself, you do not have compassion for the other person. Let me give you an example, I have a friend who is an artist to a fault. E 'was difficult for me until I saw that I was in the same way. When I have this in their spread does not bother me more than me. Jung says? This makes your eyes on the shadow side of human nature. He tries to blind against the salutary dogma of original sin, which is yet so prodigiously true. Yes, he is still reluctant to admit the conflict of which he is so painfully aware. Third, is what I call the tank and the method to show. Make sure you're in the depths of your soul and find the parts that you thought were not good enough to exist. This is intense, but the only way I know of to let you know that the world is waiting for the person you've created. This person has something to offer to all humanity, not the person who claims to be. Many of you are so unhappy that you go home and cry all night. They hold a thread, why do not you? T know if you can use this illusion of a lot longer. I promise that if the work will be worth it. Ho, where they are, so what I'm talking about. How do you use and show? I recommend to a magazine, for your eyes only. Write five things I hate about you. For example, angry, hostile, pessimistic, etc. Then you write what is good about these things. This will require a little 'research, but I promise you, is a hidden gift. Part of this is just the idea of inclusion, something that I hate you. If you get rid of the mystery about you get rid of her. What is in the final analysis, it was found, so why not show on your terms. There is a saying, what they don? T your own. We have all heard the man who is really sweet, but sometimes beats his wife. This is what makes the hidden anger. It is an explosion and someone else. Some people you should get your friends and family to help with this project. Are not necessary for most people, because some people have their lives based on what others think or believe them. It 'now time for you to be in front of you. Moreover, in the end it only matters what you think of her. Others can project, but we must accept. To retu to the form of action and to see yourself for who you really are. Fourth, forgiveness is an essential part of living authentically. You have to forgive you for lying. It 'hard to do, especially if you do not deserve our forgiveness. The strange thing is that forgiveness is not for the other party, but for you. I want to live on the premise of maintaining the accounts shortly. How to open a value of peace? The biggest revelation for me is that there is very little that I was prepared to lose my peace. I would better not bitter. Make that your goal as well. The bitteess is a cancer that must be cut or destroyed. Forgiveness does not mean that you must let the individual have the same relationship with her than before the offensive. This means that you are not against them. Over time, some deserve the privilege of being a friend again, but the trust must be eaed. For example, if a dog bites, you can forgive, but can not be? T want you around. Finally, the authentic life requires letting go. You must abandon the illusions of the past, the lies and audacity. The courage to believe that there is something wrong, but with all of you. All that is happening. You know the truth deep. They are afraid that somehow you enter your secret, or, worse, that someone else set. What is the secret? You are a fraud. It is pretending to be something you can not deny, and that you are. Authentic living is hard. It requires, in itself, and pull out the junk so you can find the precious stone. It is not for the weak or those opting for a quick fix. Authentic living is a lifestyle, and takes time to develop. So don? T fear of making a mistake or not, because the only time that is not, if you select the information remains the same. About the author: Delores Williams is a freelance writer living in Oklahoma City. Their correspondence is from various aspects of their life, or close to it. They can be reached at delwilliams@gmail.com